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放缓脚步,拥有自己的生活。我一直努力地探索怎样同时当好成功地职业妇女和快乐的家庭主妇。经过十几年的生活历练,我真的找到一种解决困境的方法,我把它称为“10-10-10法则”。每当我发现自己处于两难困境时,就会问自己三个问题:这个决定10分钟后带来什么后果?在10个月后呢?在10年后又会怎么样?问题的答案通常会告诉我做出最理性决定的依据。我第一次运用这个法则是在一个普通的工作日。那天我向孩子们保证晚上早些回家。可是下班前办公室有紧急情况需要加班。那时我正希望得到晋升,溜回家似乎很不理智。我打电话回家试探一下情况,结果临时保姆急得都快哭了,两个孩子在
Slow down and have your own life. I’ve been working hard to find out how to be both a successful professional woman and a happy housewife at the same time. After more than 10 years of life experience, I really find a way to solve the dilemma, I call it “10-10-10 law.” Whenever I find I am in a dilemma, I ask myself three questions: What happened after 10 minutes of this decision? After 10 months? What happened after 10 years? The answers to the questions usually tell I made the most rational decision basis. The first time I applied this rule was on an ordinary working day. On that day I assured the children that I would go home earlier in the night. However, there is an emergency situation in the office before get off work to work overtime. At that time, I was hoping to get promoted and it would seem irrational to slip home. I called home to test the situation, the results of the temporary nanny anxious almost cried, two children in the