情商,是一个人成长进步和成就事业的重要因素。青年军人正处在心智成长和事业发展的关键时期,培育良好的情商对走好军旅人生之路至关重要。要历练心性,做到“能刚能柔”。刚,就是刚正不阿;柔,就是灵活变通。刚柔之间,其实就是对原则的把握。在原则问题上,坚持原则是一种思想品格,也是一种责任担当,就是要有遇到矛盾敢于做斗争的鲜明态度。但在具体问题上,坚持原则又是一门艺术,因为很多事情并不是非白即黑,有时还要做 EQ, is an important factor in a person’s progress and achievement. Young military personnel are at a critical stage of their intellectual growth and career development. To cultivate a good emotional intelligence business is of crucial importance to the road to military life. To experience the psychological, so that Just, just right; soft, is flexible. Between rigid and flexible, in fact, is to grasp the principle. On the issue of principle, upholding principle is a kind of ideological character as well as a responsible undertaking, that is, we must have a distinct attitude of encountering contradictions and daring to fight. However, on specific issues, adherence to principles is another art, because many things are not non-white or black, and sometimes they have to be done