完美主义者,心理学上是指那些把个人的标准定得过高,不切实际,而且带有明显的强迫倾向,要求自己去做不可能做到的那种理想的人。而完美主义的父母,就是用这样的思维逻辑去要求孩子。人们做事总是希望自己做得越完美越好,客观事实是一件事情总是有更好的解决方案,但是人的能力与 Perfectionism, psychologically refers to those who set the standard of the individual too high, unrealistic, with a clear tendency to force themselves to do what they can not do. The perfectionist parents, is to use such logical thinking to ask children. People always want to do things as perfect as possible, the objective fact is that one thing always has a better solution, but people’s ability and