国外有专家建议,在孩子的书桌上种一盆鲜花,让孩子自己在给鲜花浇水、施肥的自然接触中,一点一点地培养他们的耐心与爱心,并将这感情迁移到对其他人与事的责任感上。独生子女似乎生来就是受别人照顾的,哪需对别人有什么责任感呢?渐渐地,他们对自己也没有责任感了:有的孩子写作业敷衍了事,做值日能躲 Some foreign experts suggested planting a pot of flowers on a child’s desk to let the children cultivate their patience and love little by little in their natural contact with watering and fertilizing flowers and move the feelings to others Responsibility of people and things. Only children seem to be born to be taken care of by others, which need to have any sense of responsibility to others? Gradually, they also have no sense of responsibility: Some children to do homework, doing value day to hide