每个孩子都是落入人间的精灵,迎接他们的第一个人生驿站就是家庭。爱是家庭教育的主题,爱要理性、智慧。一、不智的爱,是家庭教育的毒瘤(一)溺爱是一种有毒的爱——送孩子一双名牌鞋,不如送他一双能走路的脚。法国教育家卢梭说:“你知道运用什么方法,一定可以使你的孩子成为不幸的人吗?这个方法就是对他百依百顺。”如今的孩子独生子女较多,溺爱似乎是顺理成章的事情。殊不知这顺理成章的事情却成了孩子成长过 Every child is an elf who falls into the world, to meet their first life station is the family. Love is the theme of family education, love should be rational, wisdom. First, unwise love, family education is a tumor (a) doting is a toxic love - to send children a pair of brand-name shoes, it is better to send him a pair of walking feet. Rousseau, a French educator, said: “Do you know the method you use to make your child an unlucky person? The way to do this is to act in good faith with him.” Today’s children have only one child, Things. Everyone knows this natural thing has become a child grew up