通过对52名3—4岁独生子女的家庭教育情况的调查及多次观察幼儿在一日生活中的表现,我们发现年轻的父母比较重视对孩子的智力培养,如他们常常利用节假日带孩子们去新华书店买书,到百货商店买新颖的玩具,到名胜古迹去游览……。这对丰富孩子的知识,启迪孩子的智慧无疑将起很大的作用,这是很好的。但是,年轻的父母对独生宝宝良好习惯、独立生活能力的培养却是很欠缺的。如独生子女普遍存在着依赖性强、独立生活能力差的弱点。在我们所 Through surveys of family education in 52 children of 3-4 years old and many observations of their performance in one day’s life, we find that young parents pay more attention to children’s intellectual development, for example, they often use holidays to bring their children Go to Xinhua Bookstore to buy books, buy new department stores to toys, and visit places of interest ... This is very good for enriching children’s knowledge and enlightenment of children’s wisdom will undoubtedly play a significant role. However, young parents are lacking in the cultivation of only children’s good habits and independent living abilities. Such as the only child widespread dependence, poor independent living weaknesses. In our place