既没有自己的好朋友,也不被社交小团体所接受,国际儿童心理组织将这样的孩子定位为“孤独儿童”,也称作“排斥儿童”。最近,据一项在上海市3个小学开展的测试调查显示,20％的孩子有孤独倾向,而真正的“排斥儿童”占5-6％。为此,笔者走访了武汉的几所校办幼儿园及小学,了解到这些“孤独儿童”的行为表现主要有以下几个特 Neither their own good friends nor small social groups accepted, International Childhood Psychological Organization such a child as “lonely children”, also known as “exclusion of children.” Recently, according to a test conducted in three primary schools in Shanghai, 20% of children have a tendency to be lonely and 5-6% of those who truly “exclude children.” To this end, I visited a few school-run kindergartens and primary schools in Wuhan, learned that these “lonely children” behavior mainly in the following special