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心理学研究表明,从小攻击性强的孩子,长大后往往容易犯罪。因此,孩子3岁以后还经常出现打人、咬人、掐人等攻击性行为时,家长不可掉以轻心。 孩子辨别是非能力差是形成攻击性行为的原因之一。家长对孩子的攻击行为既不能袒护,也不能轻描淡写地批评了事,而要严肃认真地指出其错误及可能造成的不良结果。如果父母对孩子的暴力行为不加以限制,孩子就无法养成控制暴力冲动的能力,发展下去将会形成狂妄、贪婪的不良品德。 有的父母脾气不好,对孩子不讲究教育方法,孩子做错事,就不分青红皂白打一顿。孩子挨打以后,易产生对抗、抵触情绪。这种情绪一旦“转嫁”到别人身上,就会找别人“出气”,逐渐形成攻击行为。
Psychological studies have shown that children who are aggressive from the young tend to commit crimes when they grow up. Therefore, children often after the age of 3 hit, bite, pinch and other offensive behavior, parents can not be taken lightly. One of the reasons for aggressive behavior is child discrimination. Parents who attack their children neither criticize nor disparagingly criticize it, but must solemnly point out their mistakes and possible adverse consequences. If parents do not limit their children’s violence, they will not be able to develop their ability to control violent impulses and their development will lead to arrogant and greedy bad morals. Some parents are not good temper, do not pay attention to the children’s educational methods, children doing wrong, indiscriminate hit a meal. Children beaten later, easy to produce confrontation, resistance. Once this emotion is “passed on” to other people, it will find someone “vent” and gradually form an attack.