一间小杂货店对面新开了一家大型的连锁商店,这家商店即将打垮杂货店的生意。杂货店的老板忧愁地找牧师诉苦,牧师建议他:“每天早上站在商店门前祈祷你的商店生意兴隆,然后转过身去,也同样地祈祷那家连锁商店,也就是当众拥抱你的敌人。”一段日子后,正如这人当初所担心的,他的商店关门了,但他却被聘为了那家连锁店的经理人,而且收入比以前更好。【启示】能当众拥抱敌人的人站在主动地位,往往能制人而不受制于人。 Opposite a small grocery store opened a large chain of stores, a store that is about to break the grocery store business. The grocery store owner complained sadly to the priest, and the priest suggested to him: “Every morning, standing in front of the shop, praying for your store’s business is booming, and then turned around, praying the same chain store, which is to hug you in public Enemies. ”After some time, just as the man was worried about, his store closed, but he was hired as manager of the chain and the revenue was better than before. Apocalypse The person who embraces the enemy in public can stand on the initiative, often without restriction.