人到老年,历经沧桑,风雨过后,心境孤寂,最怕失去亲人的关心,也特别在意自己是否受到周围人的关注。生活中,我们见过很多老人,阅历丰厚,豁达开朗,对晚辈和邻里宽仁大度,他们的善举得到晚辈应有的尊重和真诚的回报。然而,有些老人却十分褊狭,过分以自我为中心,从而远离亲情,邻里排异, People to old age, after the vicissitudes of life, after the storm, loneliness, fear of losing their loved ones are concerned, but also particularly concerned about whether they are the people around the attention. In life, we have seen many elderly people with rich experience, open-mindedness, broad-mindedness toward younger generations and their neighbors. Their good deeds have been given due respect and sincere return by their younger generations. However, some elderly people are extremely narrow and self-centered, so as to stay away from their kinsfolk and their neighbors.