很奇怪,我们对自己过错的审视,往往不如看待别人所犯的过错那么严重。正如德国神学家肯比斯所言:“我们很少用同样的天平去衡量邻居。”我想,这大概是因为我们对导致过错的背景了解得很清楚,以致于我们对于别人的过错不能原谅,对于自己的过错就比较宽容,从而使我们常把注意力集 It is very strange that our examination of one’s fault is often not as serious as looking at the mistakes made by others. As the German theologian Kebius put it: “We rarely use the same balance to measure our neighbors.” I think this is probably because we understand the background of the fault so clearly that we cannot forgive the fault of others. We are more tolerant of our own faults, so that we often focus our attention.