作家海明威说:“我们花了两年学会说话,却要花上六十年来学会闭嘴。大多数时候,我们说得越多,彼此的距离却越远,矛盾也越多。在沟通中,大多数人总是急于表达自己,一吐为快,却一点也不懂对方。两年学说话,一生学闭嘴。懂与不懂,不多说。心乱心静,慢慢说。若真没话,就别说。”这话倒是真的,现实生活里,我们常常看到夸夸其谈、口若悬河,仿佛自己“上知天文,下知地理”的人,却很少看到会掌握时机及时闭嘴 The writer Hemingway said: “We spent two years learning to speak, but it took six decades to learn to shut up. Most of the time, the more we say, the farther away from each other, the more the contradictions. , Most people are always eager to express themselves, spit fast, but do not understand each other. Two years to learn to talk, life learn to shut up. Understand and do not understand, not to say. If you do not say anything, let alone. ”In real life, we often see rhetoric, eloquent, as if their own“ astronomy, under the geography ”, but rarely see Grasp the opportunity to shut up in time