总有人大惊小怪:你一个北方都市的姑娘,怎么会嫁给一个南方乡村的小伙?逢到此时,丈夫总是眨眨眼睛,故作深沉地摆出一副无可奉告的嘴脸,而我总戏称:“我受骗了。” 实际上并没有谁骗我。大学时我们是同学,大三时开始了昏天昏地的恋爱,那时的女孩儿只相信爱情,何况男友还仪表堂堂,温柔体贴,哪里还顾得上考证他的老家籍贯呢。毕业时心甘情愿地随他到了南方,顺理成章地做了他的妻子,营建了自己的婚姻围城,于是,城乡差别带来了一个又一个矛盾。 首先,结婚时我的父母兄姐按照城市的标准给我准备了大到冰箱、彩电,小到锅碗瓢勺的嫁妆,而公公婆婆呢,一分钱没带从乡下来到我们的新房,临走还带 There are always people fuss: you a girl in the north, how to marry a guy in the southern village? At this time, her husband always blinked his eyes, so pretending to be a noisy mouth, and I always Jokingly said: “I was deceived.” In fact, no one deceived me. When we were in college, we were classmates, and when we were young, we were in a faint love. When the girls believed in love alone, not to mention her boyfriend was also dignified, tender and considerate, and where he still considered the hometown of his hometown. Graduation willingly with him to the South, a matter of course to be his wife, built his own marriage siege, so the difference between urban and rural areas has brought one after another contradiction. First of all, at marriage, my parents and sisters, in accordance with the standards of the city, prepared me a big dowry to the refrigerator, the color television set and the small scoop of pots and pans, while the father-in-law did not bring any money from the country to our new house, Before leaving