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前来心理咨询所替爱人咨询的老袁描述了近两年来老伴的变化:“我老伴本是个性格温和、内向的人,向来待人和气,从不会与人为难或争吵。结婚二十多年了,我们夫妻关系一直很好,与亲戚邻里相处得亦很和睦。可是这两年来尤其是她退休后,发生在她身上的一些变化使她与从前判若两人,我真搞不清楚一个人怎么会变化这么大。”快退休那两年,她时常念叨厂里的某某在算计她,企图使她在退休前犯错误;同车间的某某总与她过不去,看她快退休了,讨厌她,等等,我对此只是一笑置之,并没在意。后来她提前办了内退,在家里种
Lao Yuan, who came to counseling for a loved one, described his wife’s changes in the past two years: “My wife is a gentle and introverted person who has always been friendly with others and will never be embarrassed or argue with anyone. Years ago, we had a very good relationship with our relatives and our neighbors, but after two years of retiring, especially after she retired, some of the changes that took place on her made me feel that she was inferior to her former husband. I really do not know How fast a person can change so much. ”" Fast retired two years, she often talk about a certain factory in the calculation of her, in an attempt to make her make mistakes before retirement; Retired, hate her, and so on, I just laughed at this, did not care. Later, she went ahead of retirement, at home species