莫用“帮带费”给亲情上枷锁在现代社会,生存环境、工作压力、生活烦恼等压得年轻人喘不过气,他们整天疲于奔波、为一家生计努力拼搏,将孩子交给父母照看也是人之常情。然而在法律上,祖父母、外祖父母确实没有带孙辈的义务。既然无义务,便不能对老人带孩子有所要求,超出义务范围就属于帮带,就有收取一定报酬的权利,这就是所谓的“帮带费”。但切莫用“帮带费”给亲情套上枷锁。如果亲情用金钱来衡量,那么父母与子女之间就会沦为最肤浅、最 In the modern society, living environment, work pressure, life troubles and other pressure on young people breathless, they are tired all day running around, to work hard for a livelihood, the child will pay Taking care of parents is also commonplace. However, in law, grandparents do not have the obligation of grandchildren. Since there is no obligation, we can not demand that the elderly bring their children. Beyond the scope of their obligations they belong to the band and they have the right to receive some remuneration. This is what the so-called “band fee” means. But do not use “help belt fee ” to put the chains of affection. If the affection is measured by money, then parents and children will become the most superficial, the most