老吴比我父亲小两岁,按理说,我该叫他叔,可部队有规定,官兵之间的称呼不是辈分关系,而是同志关系。我曾几次试着在老吴的尊姓后面加上同志二字,总感到语气有些生硬。为了避免称呼上的尴尬,每次见面我只好跟着大家一起叫老吴。老吴也不计较这些细节,朋友同事间无论年龄大小,有事 Old Wu two years younger than my father, stands to reason that I should call him uncle, but the troops have provisions, officers and men of the call is not seniority, but gay relations. I tried several times to add Comrade two words behind Lao Wu’s family name, and I always felt some blunt tone. In order to avoid the awkwardness of the address, I had to follow the old name Wu Wu every time I met. Old Wu does not care about these details, friends and colleagues no matter age, something