老师您好:我跟老公结婚近20年,算得上家庭和睦举案齐眉。婚姻中的矛盾,有时跟夫妻俩关系并不大,家庭各个成员才是导火索。这次我们俩的冲突来自我的公公——一位退休老干部,在任时位高权重,即便已经隐退多年,各方面待遇还是很好,每个月拿着大几千的退休工资,还有其它福利。说得势利一点,这样的老人,对于子女来说其实是个宝。公公平时很少出门,花钱的地方不多,而且他一直都很节俭,这些年算一算存了也得有个百来万,还有一套在市区的一百多平的房子,估价在三百多万。 Hello teacher: I married her husband for nearly 20 years, regarded as family harmony entertained. The contradictions in marriage, sometimes with the relationship between the couple is not large, all members of the family is the fuse. This time the conflict between the two of us came from my father-in-law, a retired veteran cadre, who has been in office for a long time and has enjoyed a very good salary in all fields, with several thousand retiring salaries every month and Other benefits. To be proficient, such an elderly person is actually a treasure for his children. The father usually rarely go out, spend a lot of places, and he has always been thrifty, all these years have to count as one hundred and ten thousand, there is a set of more than 100 flat houses in the city, valuation In more than three million.