有一位家长这段时间十分苦恼。他与孩子的老师发生了争执,此后孩子觉得老师对自己爱理不理的。家长怕孩子吃亏,想转学,困难重重;想化解矛盾,又感到老师做得实在不那么在理,自己主动去求和,不仅心里不平衡,面子上拉不下来,老师要是不能严于律己,孩子以后还是要吃亏。他真是左右为难。 One parent was very upset during this time. He and the child’s teacher had a dispute, then the child felt the teacher ignored himself. Parents are afraid of children suffer, want to transfer, difficult; want to resolve conflicts, but also feel that the teacher did not so reasonable, take the initiative to seek peace, not only the heart is not balanced, face down, the teacher can not be strict with self-discipline, After the child still have to suffer. He is so dilemma