记忆中,时令一旦进入腊月,就立刻多了些神秘色彩。母亲告诉我们,受了委屈不许哭,要忍着。哭是人的本能之一,但在腊月就不同了,哭似乎亵渎了什么,会冲淡年的喜庆与福气,所以,都要克制。而且乡间还有“哭祸”之说,一个七八岁的孩子,如果动不动就哇哇大哭的话,定会给家庭带来不祥。我由此想起了一件往事——邻居“花奶 Memory, the seasonal once into the twelfth lunar month, immediately more mysterious color. My mother told us that I had to endure my grievances and cry. Crying is one of human instincts, but different in the twelfth lunar month, crying seems to desecrate anything, diluting the festivities and blessings of the year, so all are to be restrained. And the country has ”crying cries,“ said a seven or eight-year-old child, if at every turn to cry, it will bring the family ominous. I am reminded of a past event - neighbors ”milk