在我刚弄清“结婚”这个概念的 含义所指时，我希望也能步母 亲的后尘，找个有学问的，说得一口非常好听的普通话、说话会脸红的男人做我的爱人。我家乡的女人们从来都是大大咧咧地叫“我的男人哎，你魂丢哩！回噢！”，女人的声音在还没黑透的天色里荡漾。母亲是没有这种机会 As soon as I came to understand the meaning of the concept of “marriage”, I hoped that I could follow my mother’s footsteps and find a knowledgeable man with a very nice Mandarin and a blushing man as my beloved. The women in my hometown have always been Carelessly called “My man hey, you lost your soul! Back!”, The voice of a woman in the dark sky is not rippling. Mother is no such opportunity