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中国家长最关注如何让孩子学习好,最喜欢研究如何让孩子爱学习。殊不知爱学习原本是孩子的天性,每个孩子都是从柔弱不能抬头的婴儿经历“三翻六坐七八爬”长大的。谁见过懒惰不肯学走路的宝宝?哪个学龄前儿童不具备“十万个为什么”的求学精神?实际上,孩子爱学习不是成人培养出来的,不爱学习才是成人培养出来的。所以生活中常见的现象是,孩子越大越不爱学习,家长越努力培养孩子越不爱学习。不爱学习的孩子,是父母用打击法、期待法和包办法培养出来的。
Chinese parents are most concerned about how to make children learn well, and most like to study how to make children love learning. I do not know love learning was originally a child’s nature, every child is from infancy can not be looked up baby experience “three turn six seventy-eight climb ” grew up. Who have seen lazy refused to learn to walk the baby? Which preschoolers do not have the “one hundred thousand why” spirit of study? In fact, children love learning is not adult training out, do not love learning is cultivated by adults . So the common phenomenon in life is that the bigger the child is, the more they do not love to learn. The harder the parents are to train children, the less they love to learn. Children who do not love to learn are parents who have fostered them by cracking down on law and looking forward to law and package law.