钱钟书小说《围城》第三章有一段关于婚姻的讨论,其中提到两则西人对婚姻的看法:一是英国古话,说结婚仿佛金漆的鸟笼,笼子外面的鸟想住进去,笼内的鸟想飞出来,所以结而离,离而结,没有了局;二是法国人的见解,将婚姻比作被围困的城堡,城外的人想冲进去,城里的人想逃出来。两种说法比 There is a discussion of marriage in chapter three of Qian’s novels, Fortress Besieged, which mentions the two views of the West on marriage. One is the old English saying that a bird cage that resembles a gold-lacquered marriage, and birds outside the cage want to live in , The birds in the cage want to fly out, so the knot away, away from the knot, there is no bureau; Second, the French view, the marriage is like a siege of the castle, outside the city want to rush in, the city people Want to escape Two kinds of argument than