尊敬的编辑:您好！ 我是一位中年男子,已有了一个美满幸福的家。可是近来同科室的一位20多岁的小刘姑娘非常痴情地追着我,一再表示非我不嫁。我不能接受她的爱,可又不想伤害她,您说我该怎么办? 上海 吴江吴江同志: 作为插足他人婚姻的女子即“第三者”,常常是一些想入非非而又无所畏惧的痴情者。她们“明知山有虎”,却“偏向虎山行”, Dear Editor: Hello! I am a middle-aged man, has a happy home. However, recently with a department of a little girl in her 20s foolhardy chase me, repeatedly said that I do not marry. I can not accept her love, but do not want to hurt her, you say what should I do? Wujiang, Shanghai Comrade Wujiang: as a woman who is involved in the marriage of other people, “third party” is often some non-trivial and fearless infatuation . They “know that there are tigers,” but “biased toward the mountains”