我们经常听到家长说这样的话:这孩子太粗心了。仔细观察,你会发现粗心的孩子各有各的粗心。明明应该用加法列算式,孩子却用了减法,家长会说孩子粗心;有的孩子甚至经常漏题,家长会说孩子粗心;在阅读时,有的孩子会漏字,家长会说孩子粗心;等等。时间久了,孩子竟然也学会了以粗心为理由。更令人不可思议的是:家长与孩子还不以为然。细细品味,你会发现,这所有的解释只不过是家长挽回面子的借口、孩子搪塞老师的 We often hear parents say that this child is too careless. Careful observation, you will find careless children each have their own carelessness. Obviously should use the addition of the formula, the child has used the subtraction, parents will say that children careless; some children often even omit, parents will say that children carelessness; reading, some children will miss the word, parents will say children carelessness; and many more. Over time, children actually learned to carelessness as a reason. Even more incredible is: parents and children do not agree. Savor, you will find that all this explanation is only an excuse for parents to save face, children prevaricate the teacher