我儿子十岁了,正上小学五年级。几乎每天,儿子都要挨老师的训斥,我们也经常接到老师抱怨的电话,除了连声说“对不起”外,我们还能怎样呢?打也打了,骂也骂了,可孩子就是我行我素!无奈之下,我找到一位退休老教师,她建议我立即停止对孩子的训斥,不妨每天夸奖孩子一次。我疑惑:夸奖,顶事吗?因为别无他法,我也只得表示试试。 My son is ten and is in fifth grade. Almost everyday, my son has to be reproached by the teacher, and we often receive phone calls from the teacher complaining about it. Besides being repeatedly saying “I’m sorry”, what else can we do? In desperation, I found a retired teacher, she suggested that I immediately stop reprimanding children, children may wish to praise once a day. I wonder: praise, the top thing? Because no other way, I also had to try.