“吃亏”是孩子宽容意识的萌芽,对于父母来说,最难过的事情之一,就是看到或听到自己的孩子受到别人欺负。面对这种情况,我们做父母的能够做些什么,对孩子说些什么?在宝宝的思想意识里,无所谓吃亏、占便宜,宝宝自有他对此类事情的理解和判断。小朋友们在一起玩耍,小打小闹时常有,打人的宝宝还不太能分辨是非,多数不是故意的;而被打的宝宝,通常也不记仇,过不多久就忘了。 “Loss ” is the sprout of children’s sense of tolerance, one of the most sad things for parents, is to see or hear their children being bullied by others. In the face of this situation, we can do what parents can do, what to say to their children? In the baby’s ideology, it does not matter loss, accounting for cheap, his own baby to understand such matters and judgments. Children playing together, often punctuality, beating the baby is not yet able to tell the right and wrong, the majority is not intentional; and beaten baby, usually not hold a grudge, not long after forget.