初次交合,一般都因一些共同的心理特点,如羞涩感、紧张感或满足感等,导致初夜的成功或失败,而深深铭刻在终生或甜蜜或苦涩的记忆之中。所谓一朝被蛇咬,十年怕井绳,心理因素引发的性紧张或性欲低下,都得靠“心药”治疗——学会自我放松,对于初次性交成功和提高性快感就显得十分重要;丈夫应该主动通过动情的话语和爱抚打破羞涩的气氛,排除性交前的心理障碍;丈夫动作要轻柔,善于体贴照顾,防止粗暴,对 Initial intercourse, usually because of some common psychological characteristics, such as shyness, tension or satisfaction, resulting in the success or failure of the first night, but deeply engraved in life or sweet or bitter memories. The so-called once bitten by the snake, ten years scared, psychological factors lead to sexual tension or low libido, have to rely on “heart medicine” treatment - learn to relax, for the first time sexual intercourse success and improve sexual pleasure is very Important; husband should take the initiative through the passionate words and caress to break the shy atmosphere, to exclude the psychological barriers before sexual intercourse; husband gentle action, good considerate care, to prevent rough, right