如果人们注意观察一下自己周围的家庭,都会发现在教育孩子问题上有一个颇为有趣的现象——父亲和母亲在孩子面前常装扮出两种截然不同的“脸谱”:一个唱红脸,另一个唱黑脸。通常都是唱黑脸的负责管教、体罚,让孩子惧怕;唱红脸的负责说情、调节,使孩子感到温暖、可亲,真是一打一拉,一严一宽,一软一硬,夫妻配合默契。 If people look closely at the families around themselves, they find that there is a rather interesting phenomenon in educating their children - the father and mother often dress up two completely different “Facebook” faces in front of their children: one is singing a red face, The other sing black face. Usually singing black face is responsible for discipline, corporal punishment, so that children fear; singing red face is responsible for talking, adjustment, so that children feel warm, amiable, really a dozen, one Yan a wide, a soft and hard, the couple With tacit understanding.