毕业以后,陈红最大的困惑是人际关系不知道怎么处理。“我的心态不像以前在学校时那样放松了,在单位,同事之间的隔阂挺大。而且又是在事业单位,人际关系特别复杂。”“我这人个性比较直,有时心里想到什么嘴上就说出来。可能就像别人说的,确实不大会做人。常常自己说过了就过去了,但别人却记在心里。有一次,我对一个同事说过几句话,自己早忘了,可后来有人提醒我说那女孩到现在还在记恨。我觉得人际关系真的好难处理。” After graduation, Chen is the biggest confusion is that people do not know how to deal with. “My mentality is not as relaxed as I used to be in my school, and there is a big gap between my colleagues in my work unit and in my institution, and my relationship is particularly complicated.” "My personality is more straightforward and sometimes I think of something Mouth, it may say, as others say, really do not be a general man, often said the past passed, but others are in mind, I once said something to a colleague, I forget Later, someone could remind me that the girl still remembers it till now, and I think the interpersonal relationship is so hard to handle.