宝贝,你长大了想干什么?妈妈,我不想长大!为什么?因为,因为,我长大了,你就老了。一直没有跟女儿谈过关于生老病死的话题,可是5岁的她逐渐从各种动漫、绘本甚至大人的谈话中意识到了这个令她十分担忧的问题。有一次,婆婆吃饭时提到老家一个邻居,说:“老掉了。”什么叫老掉了。女儿追问。就是老没了。年纪大的人还是很忌讳直接说死这个字眼。女儿很好奇地问,奶奶,是不是你越来越老,越来越老,有一天,早上我醒来,你就不见了? Mom, I do not want to grow up! Why? Because, because I grew up, you’re old She has never talked to her about the issue of illness or death, but at age 5, she gradually became aware of this issue which she was very worried about from various animations, picture books and even adults. Once, my mother-in-law mentioned a neighbor in her home when she said: “It’s old.” What’s old? Daughter asked. It is old and gone. Older people are still very taboo direct death of the word. Daughter asked very curiously, Grandma, is not you older and older, getting older, one day I woke up in the morning, you disappeared?