在家庭中,母亲还要扮演贤妻的角色,与父亲的关系要融洽、和睦,要营造一个温馨的家庭氛围。在家庭中,母亲不仅是孩子的母亲,也是丈夫的妻子。对孩子的教育,主要是通过母亲的身份而得以进行的。但从另一个角度看,在孩子的眼中,称职的妻子会与合格的妈妈一样有威信,母亲可以通过妻子的角色和与父亲的关系间接地对孩子产生影响,达到教育目的。因此在教育孩子的过程中,仅仅做一名好母亲是不够的,还要做一名好妻子。作为母亲扮演妻子的角色时能对孩子产生影响的重要因素,首先需要探讨的是家庭关系的基础——夫 In the family, the mother also plays the role of wife, and her father’s relationship to be harmonious, harmonious, to create a warm family atmosphere. In the family, the mother is not only the child’s mother, but also the husband’s wife. The education of children is mainly carried out through their mother’s identity. From another perspective, in the eyes of a child, a competent wife will have the same prestige as a qualified mother, who can achieve her educational goal indirectly through her wife’s role and her relationship with her father. Therefore, in the process of educating children, just being a good mother is not enough, but also to be a good wife. As an important factor that influences the mother when the mother plays the role of wife, the first thing I need to discuss is the basis of the family relationship