在班主任工作中,与学生个别谈话是最常用且极为有效的一种沟通交流方式。古语说“凡事预则立,不预则废”。就像每一位教师上课之前都应备好课一样,与学生的每一次交谈也应有精心的准备。一次随心所欲的、随兴所至的、缺乏诚意的、无备而为的谈话不但不会取得预期的效果,有时还会适得其反,甚至会给以后的教育带来更多的困难。 In class teacher work, talking to students individually is one of the most common and extremely effective ways to communicate. The old saying goes, “Everything pre-set legislation, not pre-waste.” Just as every teacher should prepare the class before class, every conversation with the student should be well-prepared. A heart-to-heart, low-hearted and unprepared conversation not only failed to achieve the desired effect, but at times it would be counterproductive and even bring more difficulties to future education.