世界上所有的爱都为了靠近,唯有亲子之爱是为了“分离”。总有人将宝宝黏人与不独立画上等号,于是,对黏人的宝宝施加压力,让他尽快走出去便成了我们常用的手段。然而,黏,未必不独立;不黏,也未必更独立。亲子早期的黏度与宝宝未来的独立度之间的关系何其微妙,又岂是可以如此简单判定的事情? All love in the world is for the sake of getting close, but only the love of parent and child is for “separation”. It is always the case that the baby sticks with or does not independently draw the equal sign. Therefore, exerting pressure on the sticky baby so that he can quickly go out becomes our common means. However, sticky, not necessarily not independent; not sticky, it may not be more independent. What is the subtle relationship between the early parental viscosity and the baby’s future independence?