现如今,对于很多适婚青年尤其是大龄未婚青年来说,每逢过年过节最怕的就是父母催婚逼婚。父母或当着儿女的面唠叨:“年龄不小了,该找对象结婚了。”“今年过年该带个朋友回来吧?”或主动出击拜托亲戚朋友给儿女介绍对象。有的父母甚至在卡片上写着儿女的年龄、职业等,挂到公园去替儿女征婚……这些做法,常常令子女哭笑不得,不胜其烦。为了应对父母的催婚,一 Nowadays, for many married youth, especially older unmarried youth, the most fearful thing for each New Year is parents’ forced marriage. Parents nagging in front of their children: “age is not small, the object is married. ” “New Year with a friend back?” Or take the initiative to ask relatives and friends to introduce children to children. Some parents even write the age, occupation, etc. of their children on the cards and hang them in parks to marry their children ... These practices often make their children dumbfashes and upset. In order to cope with the parents of marriage, one