“不同阶段”指孩子发育成长的不同阶段。不同阶段的亲子关系调节,各具不同的特点。比如,家长特别气恼的是,孩子有话不告诉父母,只让同龄伙伴知道,因而家长指责孩子:“我养你十几年反而不及你的同学?”等等,引起冲突,这就是家长不懂得,在青春期,孩子的独立意识迅速发展起来,重视自我,对父母教师长辈都会有“闭锁”倾向,这是正常的,也是心理健康发展必需的,指责孩子不对家长说 “Different stages” refers to the different stages of child development and growth. Different stages of paternity adjustment, each with different characteristics. For example, parents are particularly angry is that children have something to tell their parents, only partners know the same age, so parents accused the child: “I raise you more than 10 years but less than your classmates?” And so on, causing conflict, which is not parents Understand that in adolescence, children’s independent consciousness develops rapidly and values ​​oneself. All of them will have a “closed” tendency toward parents and teachers. It is normal and necessary for mental health development to accuse children of not speaking to their parents