在我八九岁的时候,父亲留给我的印象是一个不出手的懦夫。他不是英雄。那时候,我经常跟哥哥打架。每当我们兄弟俩发生冲突的时候,父亲就坐在一旁静静地看。他常常跟我和哥哥提起一句话:“打还是不打?主动权在自己手上,你们必须学会选择。”我觉 When I was eight or nine, my father left me the impression that a coward was not shot. He is not a hero. At that time, I often fight with my brother. Whenever we two brothers clashed, my father sat quietly watching. He often said to me and my brother: “Do not fight or fight? The initiative is in your own hands and you have to learn to choose.”