孩子不近座儿在老北京,家里来了客人,孩子是不能近座儿的。所谓不近座儿,就是不靠近主人和客人坐的座位。换句话说,家里来了客人,是大人们的事儿,跟孩子没什么关系,孩子不能凑过来跟客人聊天。通常的做法是,家里来了客人,父母或爷爷奶奶把孩子叫过来,让孩子跟客人见个面,大人把孩子介绍给客人,孩子向客人行礼问好后,便跑一边该干什么干什么去了。 Children are not near children in old Beijing, the family came to the guests, the children can not be close to children. The so-called close child, is not close to the owner and guests sitting seat. In other words, the family came to the guests, is a big thing, has nothing to do with children, children can not come to chat with guests. The usual practice is that the family came to the guests, parents or grandparents called the child over, let the children meet with the guests, the adults introduce the children to the guests, the children to the guests after the courtesy, they ran to do what to do.