有人认为,老夫妻之间,脾气禀性互相了解,说话可以直来直去。其实老夫妻之间即使是真情关爱,也要讲究方式、态度。前几天,和几位老朋友聚餐。老张刚夹了一块扣肉,就听他老伴儿吼道:“你怎么不注意,医生早告诉你少吃肥肉啦!”他老伴儿一边说着,一边用筷子将肉打掉了。看着难堪的老张,一桌人陷入了尴尬。虽然大家都明白老张的妻子是为他好,但这种关爱有些居高临下。 Some people think that the old couple, temper nature to understand each other, talk straight ahead. In fact, even the true love between the old couple, but also pay attention to the manner and attitude. A few days ago, and several old friends dinner. Old Zhang just caught a piece of buckle meat, I heard his partner roared: “Why do not you pay attention, the doctor told you to eat less fat!” His wife said while children, while using chopsticks to beat the meat It’s Look embarrassed Zhang, a table into an embarrassment. Although we all know that Zhang’s wife is good for him, this care is somewhat condescending.