“愚妄人怒气全发,智慧人忍气含怒。”(箴29:11)美国社会心理学家费斯汀格有一个理论,被人们称为“费斯汀格法则”:生活中的10%是由发生在你身上的事情组成,而另外的90%则是由你对所发生的事情如何反应所决定。他举例:卡斯丁早上起床后洗漱时,随手将高档手表放在洗漱台边,妻子怕被水淋湿了,就拿走放在餐桌上。儿子吃早饭时,不小心将手表碰到地上摔 “Foolish people are full of anger and wisdom is full of anger.” (Pro 29:11) The American social psychologist Forstinger has a theory that people call “the law of Fitinginger”: life Of the 10% that’s happening to you, the other 90% is determined by how you react to what’s going on. For example: When Castin got up and washed in the morning, he put his high-end wristwatch on the sink and his wife was afraid of being wet with water. He took it and put it on the table. When my son ate breakfast, accidentally hit the watch fell on the ground