曾有人指出,从八十年代以后成长起来的中国年轻一代,在很大程度上依然没有摆脱所谓“断乳期”的生存依赖性,这一代有一个共同的缺陷就是:他们从小到大,尽管其身体不断成长,但其心理却永远都是孩子。这是因为我们的家长似乎很少把孩子视为一个独立的人而使其真正健康的成长。相反,他们几乎完全按成人的方式去培养他们的孩子。因此,中国的孩子又似乎从小就是“大人”,因为他们必须按照父母 It has been pointed out that the young generation of Chinese who have grown up since the 1980s are still largely free from the survival dependency of the so-called “weaning period.” This generation has one common defect: they have grown from small to large. His body grows, but his mind is always a child. This is because our parents seem to seldom regard their children as an independent person and make them truly healthy. Instead, they develop their children almost exactly as adults. Therefore, Chinese children again seem to be “adults” since childhood because they must follow their parents.