孔子说“对他人要宽恕、宽容。要设身处地,即习惯于站在他人的角度看问题、想事情。再具体些说就是,自己希望怎样生活,就想到别人也会希望怎样生活;自己不愿意别人怎样对待自己,就不要用那样的态度和行为去对待别人。”孔子经常会给身边的人讲一些为人处世、待人接物的道理。有一次,弟子子 Confucius said, “Forgiveness and forgiveness to others, to be located, that is used to stand on the point of view of others, think about things, and more specifically, is how they want to live, think of how others will also want to live; Willing to treat others how to treat others, do not use such attitude and behavior to treat others. ”" Confucius often give people around to talk about some people, others to the truth. Once, his disciples