存一项心理学家给现代人开列的现代心理健康标准当中,有这样一条规定:“人际关系深刻,富有同情心、具有爱的能力。”这也就是说,作为一个现代人,如果只具备开放、积极的心态,以及能正确处理错综复杂的人际关系的能力是远远不够的。如果没有一颗善良、宽容的心,没有同情与爱的能力,你就不能算作是一个身心健康的人。 There is a provision in the modern standard of mental health for a modern psychologist: “A deep, compassionate person with the power of love.” This means that as a modern man, if you have only one Open, positive mentality, and the ability to properly handle intricacies of relationships are far from enough. Without a good, forgiving heart and without the power of compassion and love, you can not count as a physically and mentally healthy person.