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刚毕业那年,我去了一家中央事业单位。100来人,女的占了多半,而且多是所属部委家属。像很多人浮于事的单位一样,上班主要是喝茶、聊天和逛街,哪里有活动哪里有新式的服装出来,一帮女的租一辆黄色面包车就去了,很少有空手回来的。不逛街时,一帮少妇,就交流双眼皮手术,交流真丝内裤的“美妙”,还有纹唇、煲汤和对付男人的经验。我去时正赶上单位3年没进毕业生,又是唯一的女生,这帮少妇的经验有了传授的对象。坐我对面的少妇就告诉我,嫁人既不能嫁商人,“商人重利轻别离”;也不能嫁搞技术的,搞技术的不懂人情世故,在当今的关系社会吃不开;官员嘛,虽多口是心非、勾心斗角,还有酗酒、嫖娼的便利条件,但“婚姻是政治”,他不敢犯政治错误,家里女人的位置还是有保证的。没几天,这位嫁了
Just graduated that year, I went to a central unit. 100 come, women accounted for most, but mostly belong to the families of their families. Like many people floating in the same units, work mainly to tea, chat and shopping, where there are activities out there new clothes, a bunch of women to rent a yellow van to go, rarely empty-handed back. When not shopping, a bunch of young women, to exchange double eyelid surgery, exchange silk panties, “wonderful”, as well as lips, soup and the experience of dealing with men. When I went to catch up with the unit 3 years did not enter the graduate, but also the only girl, young women’s experience has been imparted to the object. The young woman sitting opposite me told me that if you marry, you should not marry a merchant. You can not marry a businessman because you can not marry him with technology. If you do not know how to do business, you can not eat in today’s social relations. , Intrigue, and alcohol, prostitution convenience, but “marriage is a political”, he did not dare to make political mistakes, the position of a woman at home or guaranteed. A few days, this married