教育心理学研究表明:孩子到了3岁左右,便开始意识到自己。由于孩子有了“自我”,便需要别人承认他的人格,希望得到别人的尊重。尊重孩子,这是培养孩子自尊心的关键。我的外孙女媛媛已满5岁。一天,我在搬运晒好的大白菜,媛媛见了也跑过来帮忙。她抱起一棵四、五公斤重的大白菜,“扑通”一声扔到堆放大白菜的地方。这时,老伴心痛地开了腔:“连4岁的洋洋(我的另一个外孙女)都……”我 Educational psychology research shows that: children reached about 3 years old, they began to realize themselves. Because children have “self”, they need others to recognize his personality, hoping to get the respect of others. Respect children, this is the key to cultivating children’s self-esteem. My granddaughter Yuanyuan full 5 years old. One day, I was carrying dried cabbage, Yuan Yuan met also ran to help. She picked up a four or five kilograms of Chinese cabbage, “thump” and threw heap cabbage place. At this time, his wife opened his heart with pain: “Even the 4-year-old ocean (my other granddaughter) ... ...” I