自律,也是一种自珍,你用珍爱自己的力量塑造出的优雅,像一件艺术品般散发出迷人的光芒,沉默无语也会被别人奉若珍宝。前段时间,我重读寿岳章子的《千年繁华》。在这本书里,她回忆了自己生活的点点滴滴。她说,她的双亲并非生性奢华,但对饮食非常讲究。她家的六席榻榻米中间摆了一张矮桌,是家里的一种精神象征。无论是吃饭还是喝茶,全家人都会聚拢 Self-discipline, but also a kind of self-Jane, you use your own strength to create elegant, like a piece of art exudes a charming light, silence will be others as a treasure. Some time ago, I reread Shou Yue Zhang’s “Millennium bustling.” In this book, she recalls a little bit of her life. She said her parents are not inherently luxurious, but they are very particular about diet. Her home six seats in the middle of a tatami placed a table, is a symbol of the family’s spiritual. Whether eating or drinking tea, the whole family will gather