常与孩子平等谈心周恩来总理曾经指出:“人之相知,贵相知心。”谈心则是人与人之间交流思想,沟通信息、形成共鸣、建立信任和友谊的有效方法。同事之间、朋友之间是这样,父母与孩子之间也是如此。父母应与孩子经常谈心,让孩子敞开心扉,淌露心迹,表白情趣,倾诉委屈,提出要求,展现自我。父母要有针对性地采用肯定、鼓励、调整、化解、引导等方法,与孩子交流,运用正确的方法,适当的言语和语气,经常与孩子谈心,引导孩子尽情倾诉。每进行一次成功的谈心,孩子就会有一种“神宽体自轻,意欲凌风翔”的轻松、愉快的感觉;而父母通过谈心也能对孩子成长各阶段的心理活动、学习情况及发展变化等做到了如指掌。孩子三岁前,父母应该通过与孩子谈心来教授孩子一些启蒙知识。这一阶段谈心,父母要多说,并且要力求说的准确,不要混淆概念,以利有效地启迪孩子的思维和语言功能。孩子上幼儿园到小学毕业前后阶段,家长 Talk to your children on an equal footing Premier Zhou Enlai once pointed out: “Heart-touching is an effective way for people to exchange ideas, communicate information, resonate and build trust and friendship.” This is the case between colleagues, friends, and between parents and children. Parents and children should talk frequently, let the children open their hearts, reveal their feelings and feelings, talk grievances, make demands, show themselves. Parents should adopt targeted, encouraging, adjusting, resolving and guiding methods to communicate with their children, use correct methods, appropriate words and tone, and often talk to their children to guide their children to talk. Every time a successful talk, the child will have a “God wide-body light, intended to Lingfeng Xiang ” relaxed and happy feeling; and parents can talk about the psychological growth of children at all stages of their mental activity, learning and development Change, etc. to be well aware. Children Three years ago, parents should teach their children some enlightenment knowledge by talking to their children. Talk about this stage, parents should say more, and strive to say accurately, do not confuse the concept, in order to effectively enlighten children’s thinking and language functions. Children kindergarten to primary and secondary school before and after the stage, parents