上周我到北京学习,回来后,先生向我反映,儿子跟他说话语气很冷淡、很生硬,不知为何。这个现象我早就发现,估计还是心里面对家长有成见。今天是周日,儿子在家吃早餐,我想利用这个机会跟他聊聊。我一边吃饭,一边装作无意的样子引出话题:“卢禹,最近这段时间妈妈在外面听了近20场报告,我发现一个细节问题,说给你听听,你帮我分析一下。”儿子面无表情地说:“什么细节?” Last week I went to Beijing to study. After coming back, the gentleman told me that his son spoke very indifferently to him. He was very stiff and did not know why. I have discovered this phenomenon for a long time and I still have preconceived opinions about parents. Today is Sunday, my son has breakfast at home, and I would like to take this opportunity to talk to him. I eat while pretending to be unintentional appearance leads to the topic: “Lu Yu, recently this time my mother heard nearly 20 reports outside, I found a detail problem, say to you listen, you help me analyze. ”Son said blankly: “ What details? ”