女儿上幼儿园中班,她问:“妈妈,我漂亮吗?”“我聪明吗?”“能干吗?”我都会回答:“当然是。”而当女儿问“我比其他小朋友漂亮、聪明、能干吗”时,我就不再作同样的回答了。生活在集体中和他人比较,并希望自己优越于他人,是一种自然而然的心理。比较并作出优劣的判断,是孩子面临的问题,同样也是家长面临的问题。很多时候总想给孩子好东西好的标准又常常以价格来衡 Daughter in kindergarten class, she asked: “Mom, I am beautiful? ” “I am smart? ” “Can do?” I will answer: “Of course. ” And when the daughter asked “I am smarter and smarter than any other child,” I will not answer the same question again. It is natural for life to compare with others in the collective and to want to be superior to others. Comparing and making judgments of strengths and weaknesses is a problem that children face and is also a problem that parents face. Many times always want to give children a good standard of good things and often to the price to balance