小明是某小学四年级学生,他的妈妈在给心理咨询中心的信中写道:“近来,我们发现孩子的性格变得越来越羞涩和懦弱。他看到纱窗外趴着一只壁虎,就吓得不敢出门上学,看见家里来了陌生的客人,就吓得躲进自己的卧室。他在课堂上回答老师的问题,声音小得像蚊子嗡嗡叫。老师和邻居都说我们的孩子可能有‘心理疾病’。”最后,这位家长在信中恳请中心帮她找一位心理医生,救救她的孩子。您看,“羞涩和懦弱”的心理行为,像浓雾一样紧紧地笼罩在孩子的心灵深处,像巨石一样压得家长喘不过气来。 Xiao Ming, a fourth grader at a primary school, wrote in his letter to the counseling center: “Recently, we found that children’s characters became increasingly shy and cowardly.” He noticed a gecko lying on the side of the window, Scared to go out to school, saw strangers came home, scared to hide in his bedroom.He answered the teacher’s questions in the classroom, the sound was like a buzzing mosquito.Master and neighbor said that our The child may have ’mental illness.’ “Finally, the parent urged the center to help her find a psychiatrist and save her child. You see, ”shy and cowardly" psychological behavior, like dense fog tightly shrouded in the depths of the child’s soul, like the boulder pressed parents feel breathless.