“人是群体的生灵,离开群体,人便无法展现自己,无法证明自己存在的意义和价值,甚至无法生存下去。人只有借助对象来认识和发现自己,这个对象就是不同时期不同的伙伴群体。”以上的道理并不难懂,虽然少男少女平时不能把自己的感受,这样准确地描述出来,但在生活中,他们无时无刻不在感受着群体带给自己的快乐;也时不时因为自己远离了群体,默默体味孤独。 “People are the living beings of groups, leaving the group, people can not show themselves, can not prove their own existence of the meaning and value, and can not even survive. People only use the object to recognize and find themselves, this object is a different period of different partners. The above reasoning is not difficult to understand. Although young boys and girls can’t describe their own feelings accurately in this way, in life, they feel the happiness that the group brings to them all the time; and from time to time, because they are far away from the group, Lonely and silently.